Saturday, October 10, 2009

Four Words

I am a lesbian. Those four words uttered to my son and daughter a bit over three years ago released a lifetime of secrets, walls, barriers, avoidances, distances and silences.

I am a lesbian. The power of those four words pushed me toward understanding my truth and empowering me to live that truth from that day forward.

Those four words led me to wonderful bloggers, women who have become allies, confidantes, and friends. Those four words led me to meetings, adventures, and women in my local area with whom I hope and expect to continue building friendships.

I am a lesbian. In the private comfort of my own home, to my son and daughter, to the bloggers I met (just before) and since the reveal, to the women I've met in the last year or so, to the woman I hold near my heart, to these folks, I am a lesbian.

To the world at large, I'm largely, not. However, those four words, I Am A Lesbian the love and support of my family and friends, paired with my own zeal will catapult me even further.

My coming out story is more an evolution. In the words of one of entertainment's most famous divas, "I'm coming out, I want the world to know, got to let it show."

"I'm coming out!"


  1. Glad to be part of your journey, or rather one of the witnesses! :) You go, girl! :)

  2. Woot! Happy National Coming Out Day!

  3. Isn't it amazing how four little words can completely change life, and empower you? Let it show and let it shine!

  4. @ Val: Me too! Thanks.

    @ Teresa, yep yep. woot woot!

    @ Pixie. Yes, it is. Shining!

  5. It's a beautiful thing Deborah.. & so are you!

  6. I love it when you get your writer on! This was great - let us post it? Pretty please?


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