Sunday, November 01, 2020

The End of October!?! November First


 

Something bit me.  This something either bit me twice or two somethings bit me in pretty much the 

same area; the back of my neck about 4 fingers from my right ear. 


I started this post some days ago (the 27th of October to be precise) and have since decided to take the post in a different direction while also deciding to leave the beginning. I won't leave you hanging thought, the bites on my neck are completely healed. Suffice to say, at the time the wounds were troubling enough to warrant mention, let alone a blog post.  

I had  a dream about one of my maternal aunts the other night.  She was the third oldest of my mom's 5 female siblings during my childhood / life.  Her death preceded my mother's by at least a decade but she was very prevalent in our lives during her life.  My mom was one of her primary caregivers during her decline; of all my cousins I am closet to her daughters.  

In the dream my aunt was alive in my present day but as if she hadn't aged since the 80s. The imagery and conversations were so jarring that I have worked to push the little bits that I did remember out of my mind. With the exception a singular event; the fish fry. Her fish fries were events of family lore. These memories I hold dear and don't mind their creeping into even creepy dreams.   

6 comments:

  1. I've been dreaming a lot about lost family and friends. COVID dreams. I'm happy your dream brought back the memory of her family fish fries. Great memory!

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  2. Wow, that is so freaky! I had some kind of bite (but only one) in pretty much the same spot! Yikes! Also healed now.

    I'm glad you were able to keep the remembrance of the fish fry at the front of your mind. Hold on to the good memories and let the bad ones drift away.

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    1. Bumps, bruises, and bites ae taking longer to heal these days--so glad those have. Glad for you too!

      'tis the goal, keep the good ones up front. :-)

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  3. Yikes, that's creepy! Although I love your drawing, might be one of my favorites. It does make me worry about poisonous spiders for you, though. :( Unsettling dreams can be so haunting, but I'm glad it brought up more pleasant memories of your aunt, and her fish fries. Yum.

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    1. Memory of the fish fries definitely a silver lining.

      Thank you!

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